Real Life | Jill Reid

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Getting Up Close and Personal Has Become a Thing of the Past
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Getting Up Close and Personal Has Become a Thing of the Past

Feeling disconnected? How to get back in touch with life.

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Jill Reid
Dec 01, 2023
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The devastating effects of modern technology have taken over - and that’s bad news for all of us …


Aside from the occasional ringing in my ears (damn tinnitus), on most days it seems like I’m living in a quiet void.

And I crave the sound of a human voice.

The lack of verbal communication is becoming much too common.

The reason behind this disturbing phenomenon is everywhere I look. Focused eyes are glued to hypnotic screens while expressionless faces offer evidence of a complete and total lack of interest in the outside world — or those who occupy it.

In quiet frustration, I watch people furiously tapping away with nimble fingers, sending urgent messages that, apparently, spoken words can no longer express.

And I wonder what’s so important that those thoughts can’t be shared with another person eyeball-to-eyeball.

Who knows, if more people actually took the time to make a phone call (gasp!) instead of zipping off a garbled collection of letters and symbols, a real live conversation may develop.

You remember what that was like — two or more people engaging in an exchange of words and sentences that leave a pleasant vibration of delightful resonance in the air.

But I suspect even if that anomaly did occur, the interchange would be brief and constantly interrupted by the nagging itch to check incoming text messages every twelve seconds.

It’s really a shame we’ve been trained to forego our natural human tendencies in deference to cold, impersonal options. 

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